I CAN SAY NO
Written by JENNY SIMMONS
Illustrated by KRISTIN SORRA
ABOUT THE BOOK
In I Can Say No, Jenny Simmons teaches children the power of the word “no.” Whether it’s saying no to bullying or someone invading their personal space or simply to playing with a friend when they need some alone time, children learn that they can use their voice to stand up for what is good in the world, and good for themselves.
I learned a little word,
And even though it’s small,
When I use it with authority,
I’m the strongest of them all!
That’s right. I can say NO.
I can say no to a movie I don’t like.
I can say no if I’m not into riding bikes.
I can say no if I want to be alone,
Or I’m feeling kind of tired and would rather stay at home.
As parents and educators, we often teach children to use the word “no” when they are in danger or when someone is trying to harm them. But “no” is powerful in other areas of life, as well.
Learning to say “no” without feeling guilty or needing to explain themselves gives children the power to protect their boundaries, energy, convictions, and time. Saying “no” also allows them to create space for saying “yes” to the things that matter most. By teaching children how to use this small but mighty word, they will be able to face life with confidence, independence, and a positive sense of self-worth!
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Want to dive deeper?
Check out the I Can Say No Resource Bundle that allows you to take the explore the lessons taught in the picture book further. The downloadable Resource Bundle includes:
- The No Game
- Starting a No Club
- How Strong is Your No? Quiz
- I Can Say No Worksheet
- I Can Say No Craftivity
- Coloring pages from the book
PRAISE FOR I CAN SAY NO
LOVE this book. I’ve used it with students working on self-esteem and confidence, but it’s so much more than that. It gives examples of how to voice “no” as an opinion, if there is an injustice (LOVE that this is becoming a common mention in books), if someone is too close, if you are unsafe, and so much more. It explains how to say no in different ways, including respectfully, and when it’s not ok to say no. I honestly can’t say enough great things about this book! This skill is definitely needed and missing from the social-emotional library.
School Social Worker
I absolutely recommend this book for K-5th grade classroom lessons on personal safety, self-confidence, setting healthy boundaries, and assertiveness. It would complement a bullying prevention unit well, too! This book truly is a must-have and a gift for educators that has been needed for a long time.
Saying no is hard for kids and adults (I used to have this problem). Understanding the reason why it’s hard to say no is the first step in empowering people to use their voices! I love this book. It’s an amazing book to read and discusses times when it’s okay and not okay to say no for kids. I read it and was like yes! Yes to saying no!
Elementary Instructional Coach
This book teaches kiddos how to stand up for themselves and how to say NO in a respectful way. The many examples the author uses helps kiddos relate to saying NO in many situations. I know as an adult saying NO to certain things is hard for me. If we say yes to everyone and everything we never have time for ourselves!
4th Grade Teacher